Thai Tofu Coconut Curry

Ingredients:

1/4 cup dry shredded baking-type coconut, unsweetened
*1 package firm tofu, drained and cut into cubes (omit if tofu is too much for your diet)
1+ 3/4 cups vegetable stock
1/2 to 2/3 can coconut milk
6 lime leaves (purchase frozen at Asian/Chinese food stores)
1/2 cooking onion, diced or roughly chopped
4 cloves garlic,minced
2 thumb-size pieces ginger, thinly sliced into matchstick-like pieces
1-3 tsp. [vegetarian] Thai chili sauce OR 1/2 to 1 tsp. dried crushed chili or cayenne pepper, to taste
3 Tbsp. vegetarian fish sauce (or regular fish sauce if non-vegetarian) - OR substitute **gluten-free tamari sauce
juice of 1/2 lime
1 small sweet potato or yam, peeled and cubed
1 cup cauliflower, cut into florets
generous handful fresh shiitake mushrooms, sliced or left whole if small
1 red bell pepper, de-seeded and chopped into bite-size pieces
approx. 1 cup snow peas, left whole or cut in half
handful cherry tomatoes
1/2 cup fresh cilantro
optional: approx. 1 cup eggplant chopped into bite-size pieces or slices
2 Tbsp. olive oil for stir-frying
Preparation:

Place shredded coconut in a dry wok or large frying pan over medium heat. Stir continuously until the coconut is nicely toasted. Place toasted coconut into a bowl to cool.
Replace wok or frying pan on the stove. Add 2 Tbsp. vegetable oil plus the onion, garlic, and ginger. Stir-fry 1-2 minutes, or until onion begins to soften and the garlic is fragrant.
Turn heat up to high. Add Tofu, cook for 5 min. Add stock plus lime leaves, chili sauce, and most of the toasted coconut (reserve 1 to 1+1/2 Tbsp. for garnish). Stir everything together.
Add the sweet potato (or yam) and cauliflower. Bring to a boil, then reduce heat to medium. Simmer 2-3 minutes.
Add the mushrooms, eggplant (if using), and tofu, stirring to incorporate. Cover and simmer 2 more minutes.
Add the bell pepper, snow peas, and tomaotes, and simmer 2-3 minutes, or until snow peas have softened but are still bright green.
Turn heat down to low and add the coconut milk plus the [veg] fish sauce or soy sauce, stirring to dissolve. Add up to 2/3 of the can of coconut milk or more, depending on how creamy or how much sauce you want with your curry.
Remove from heat and do a taste-test for salt and spice, adding more [veg.] fish sauce, Tamari or salt. Add more chili if you prefer it spicer.
To serve, scoop the curry onto individual plates or into serving bowls. Top with fresh coriander and a sprinkling of the reserved toasted coconut. Accompany with plenty of Thai jasmine rice.
ENJOY!
*Tofu is soy, in this form it is OK, once in a while. Just watch how you feel afterwords.
**Tamari sauce is a purer form of say sauce, this too should be ok in small, once in awhile doses.